Saturday, September 24, 2011

Blessed (#7 - Check)

One of my goals this year was to invest time in new friendships. Little did I know how blessed I would be by new friends (and old friends). In February, my friend Lauren and I decided to lead a small group that would meet every Friday night. The purpose of our group was to meet more people from church and just provide an opportunity for everyone to hang out each week. Since that group started I have made some amazing new friends that have challenged and encouraged me in my relationship with God. When we started this group, I had no idea how blessed I would be with new church friends. Even though our group only lasted through May, we all still hang out and I am constantly encouraged by these amazing people.
I also had no idea that when I made this goal for myself, God would also provide the opportunity for me to invest time in some old friends as well. My best friend that I have known since I was about 11 was hit with a devastating blow in May when she found out that her husband of 7 years (who was also one of my closest friends) had been having an affair. Needless to say, I was shocked and devastated to learn about this. But, with an incredible amount of dignity and strength my amazing friend faced this with the most admirable attitude. I am so thankful that I live close by and was able to be there with her and her precious little boy over the past 4 months. She has no idea how much I have learned from her. Her faith has been strengthened and she has whole-heartedly rested in the arms of our Savior. She started a blog when everything first happened and she was able to verbalize what she was feeling and thinking, but at the end of each post she was able to bring it back to what God was teaching and showing her in all of this. One of our other childhood friends (who has experienced her own share of "awful") said it best when she told Stacey that this was just a sad chapter in a beautiful story. Today is Stacey's 30th birthday and I am celebrating what an amazing friend, sister, mother, teacher, and daughter she is. She has faced the single-most painful experience of her life and she has grown stronger as a person and as a Christian because of it. She now has a new job teaching kindergarten, a great new home with her son, and some much needed distance from this "sad chapter".

God is so faithful in providing for us and answering our prayers. When I started praying for our small group in January and asking God to bring new friends into my life, I had no idea that not only would he provide those amazing people, but He would also strengthen a 20 year bond with a lifelong friend. "I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you I always pray with joy." - Philippians 1:3-4

Friday, September 23, 2011

Update on THE List

Earlier this year I mentioned my list that I created of things I wanted to do before my BIG 30th birthday in August. Well, here is the update on what I actually checked off my list:

  1. Shoot a Gun
  2. Skydive
  3. Run a 5K - DONE (well, sort of)
  4. Auburn Reunion with college friends - DONE
  5. Concerts - DONE
  6. Read Little Women - Tried to, but couldn't get through the first chapter
  7. Invest time in new friendships - DONE and soooo blessed
  8. Visit a Winery - DONE
  9. Road Trip - DONE
  10. 5 Random Acts of Kindness
  11. Volunteer for something new - DONE
  12. Art - DONE
  13. Church 301 - DONE
  14. Church 401 - DONE
  15. Camping
  16. Get a massage - DONE
  17. Sewing
  18. Cooking Class - DONE
  19. Zip Line
  20. Scuba Dive
  21. Get a Passport
  22. Ski (Water or Snow)
  23. Watch the Sun Rise
  24. Be a Greeter at church - DONE
  25. Visit a Flea Market - DONE
  26. Visit a New College Town/Stadium - DONE
  27. Ride a Motorcycle
  28. New Floor in my Kitchen
  29. Visit Nathan in Colorado
  30. Movies
    o Citizen Kane
    o The Godfather - DONE
    o Casablanca - DONE
    o Ghost
    o Gone with the Wind
    o Psycho - DONE
    o Thelma and Louise - DONE
    o American Graffitti
    o Raiders of the Lost Ark
    o Breakfast at Tiffany's - DONE
    o One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest - DONE
    o The Graduate - DONE
    o Little Women
    o Doubt - DONE
    o A Few Good Men - DONE

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Fun, FUN, FuN!

I got back from camp on Saturday, and then headed to the beach with Ashley, Robert, Carson, and Maggie on Thursday. We were in Destin through the following Tuesday. It was great to play with the girls, relax (lots of afternoon naps), and spend some time with my sister. This is a picture of Ashley and Carson playing in the waves. Carson loved the ocean! Maggie preferred to eat the sand. We got back from the beach Tuesday afternoon, washed clothes, and re-packed to head over to Atlanta. We were in Birmingham Tuesday night and then headed over to Atlanta Wednesday. For Ashley's birthday I got us tickets to the New Kids on the Block/Backstreet Boys concert. We giggled like little girls the entire night and had so much fun reliving our previous obsession with boy bands. At one point a now 40 year old Donnie Wahlberg ripped off his wife-beater to reveal a chiseled six-pack. Ashley was yelling, "I cannot take you seriously. Aren't you on Law and Order now???" I may or may not have been yelling "Take it off!!! You've got the right stuff, baby!!!" Next, we got ready to celebrate our close family friend's wedding. You have heard me mention this sweet family several times. They are my 'nother family that lives in Marietta, Georgia. Their son, Perry, will be starting his second year at Samford in a few weeks. He is a cancer survivor and amazing young man! Bonne graduated from the University of Georgia and has grown into an incredible Godly woman. I have grown up with this family and remember beach trips, Auburn games, and lots of laughs. Bonne's husband is as fabulous as she is and we had so much fun celebrating all weekend with them. Carson was a flower girl and she was very excited to be in Bonne's weddin'. The entire weekend was gorgeous and so special. We went to her Bridesmaids' Luncheon on Friday, the rehearsal dinner that night, and then the wedding was Saturday night. I loved being at the rehearsal dinner and hearing all of the stories about Bonne and Kyle and what great friends they have been to others. Everyone had beautiful things to say about each ot them. The wedding was outdoors and straight out of Southern Living. Bonne was a stunning bride. It was very special to be a part of her wedding day! I am so very thankful for this family and their friendship!

Friday, July 15, 2011

Camp Smile-A-Mile

School got out, my parents moved in, and then summer started and I hit the ground running. I had a week at home and then headed back to Camp Smile-A-Mile June 5 - 11. I had the same camper again this summer and was amazed at how much she has grown over the past year. We had a great time and, as always, I had a perspective adjustment. How can you not focus on all you have to be thankful for when you are surrounded by CHILDREN who are battling cancer? The week consisted of swimming, dancing, cooking, archery, paintball, basketball, snorkeling, make-overs, and a visit from Aubie and some Auburn football players. The kids had an amazing week and I am blessed to have been a part of it! The above picture is my camper, Darby, and me before the Superhero Dance. I was "SuperCam" and she was "Super Darby".

The House That Built Me

Yes, I do realize that I have not really picked back up my blog as promised and I am going to try and do better. Let me fill you in on what all has been going on. Hmmm... where to begin. Okay, so my last post was about the two 5k's I did in the spring. After that May continued to speed up with Mother's Day, birthdays, dance recitals, end of school year chaos, and helping my parents pack up and move out of their house. To say that May was hectic and exhausting is an understatement.

While trying to get everything wrapped up at school I was also trying to help my parents as much as possible. This was the house I grew up in here in Birmingham. My parents had been there for 20 years. That is 20 years worth of a whole lotta stuff to sort through, throw out, donate, box up, sell, reminisce over, laugh about, etc. Lots of blood, sweat, and tears went into that move (literally). What they kept went into storage and they moved in with me. Interestingly enough we have decided that I actually saw them more when they didn't live with me. (The summer has not slowed down at all.) Oddly enough, after being on the market for over a year, their house ended up selling to one of my childhood friend's brother and his family. I loved that house and the years and years of great memories I have from it. I hope that they will love it as much as we did and have just as many wonderful memories there.

Here are some of my favorite memories from 2616 Southminster Road:
- Family dinner on Sunday nights around the kitchen table
- The freezing swimming pool and the Bobcat that finally dug it up and filled it in :(
- Crowding in the den to watch Auburn football games in the fall
- The hard work that dad put into the yard each year and the way everything looked when it bloomed in the spring.
- Coming home from college on the weekends and looking forward to being in "my bed"
- Standing at the top of the stairs, hidden from view, and asking Ashley if I could borrow her shirt that I already had on
- Spend the night parties with friends
- "The Blizzard of '96" and being stuck inside for days

There were lots of memories throughout that house, but there are so many more memories to create in the years ahead. People asked me if I was sad about my parents selling their house. Honestly, I never really was. Maybe because I have my own home now or maybe because by the time it was all said and done I was exhausted, but I am thankful for my family that I love and know that we will continue to make lots of new memories no matter where "home" is.

Friday, July 1, 2011

See Merty Run (#3 - Check)

Ok... I'm back. As you all know, one of the things on my list this year was to run a 5K. In January I started doing the "Couch to 5K" running program. I feel as though I did make it off the couch, but not quite to the 5K (seeing as Karli promised I would be able to run 3 miles after my 9 week program with her). My sister and I did a 5K together in April. She found one for us to do together in Auburn on April 16. My 5K was more of a fast-paced walk/burst out in a run for a few minutes at a time. I finished in 42:45. The key words there were "I finished." We had a great time doing this together and it was quite the accomplishment. Now, on my list I said "run a 5K" (my sister kindly pointed out that I kind of screwed myself on the wording), but I am counting this anyway! After finishing the first 5K I (stupidly) thought, "Oh, let's do that again!" and so I signed up for another one. So, on May 14 I did the Zoo Run in Birmingham with my friend, Julie. I think I ran approximately one time between these 2 races, so I was pretty nervous about walking/running again. But, I actually ended up doing better and finished in 40:34.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Yes, I am still alive

I do still have a blog. I have not updated this blog in two months. I apologize for the lack of updates, but I have been just a little busy. I have lots to catch you up on. Over these past two months I...
1. ran my first (and second) 5K
2. ended my fifth year of teaching
3. helped my parents move out of their house
4. volunteered again at Camp Smile a Mile
5. fell off the weight loss bandwagon, climbed back on, and then fell off again

I promise to post pictures and stories about each of these things over the next several days. Hope you are all enjoying your summer and staying cool!